He KNOWS she is like this. He has admitted it to me.
But still tells me that the love remains inside for her.
Just Asking in Regards to a recent event a close mate of ine talked to me about.
I knew not much about her.. but socialized only once.
While they were dating, she would always tell him what to do.
When she wanted to.. and How she wanted it Done.
She sometimes seeed a bit weird and thought she was hiding something. I later came to find out that she had feelings for another man and broke up with my best friend in such a cold blodded way.
I was there for Him through the sadness, depresion and the pain.
I Now come to find out, that he still keeps in touch in her!
Text and Calls her. She is currently unemployed, and she always comes to him for loans.. or some small favours.
I know deep inside he still loves her .. but is just not healthy for him to keep in touch with her. Yes, they did have a good history together but that was the past. He needs to move on.
She has even gotten the nerve to talk to him about her and her new hubby who she is crazy about. and Even invite him for Dinner or Lunch.
I cant stand seeing like this!
How can I get through to him and Tell him to cut it off ?
To move On..?
To Get him optimistic and make him realize that there are plenty more fish out in the sea .?
Thank you all for your help!
-- Worried Friend.Singles %26amp; Dating:: Why after a Tough Break-up, Do Men Still Speak Wit their Ex even though shes Manipulative.?
good question - she is merely looking out for number 1 and it takes time to realize that....
tell your friend that the new guy's time will come too, don't worry, it's inevitable.......
and there will be one after that, and after that, and after that. He should be thankful he is out, she did him a favour by the sounds of itSingles %26amp; Dating:: Why after a Tough Break-up, Do Men Still Speak Wit their Ex even though shes Manipulative.?
Some guys are fortunate when they can stay friends with ex's. They know each other and can forge lifelong friendships.
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In this case, Audi, Love, if you can call it that (really just physical attraction) has won over mind and logic.
Encourage optimism and a desire to move on and he will be fine.
Hm mm sounds like he has some abandonment problems? Like most guys we all have this thing about our ex's....One is the great sex she gave, two if we know she is not an independent person we ten to keep in touch. We all know that eventually she will come back asking for a favor and these days favors are not FREE. Three she knows that we still want what she can offer even though she is a bit on the bitchy side or is just blunt about everything, sometimes we guys love a woman like that? Go figure huh? It is to be said the same about some of you ladies too, knowingly that the guy cheats,hits,verbally abuses you and torments y'all .....You stay with him or stay in touch? We are all very easily manipulated over just physical looks and we do not bother viewing the personality nor the character side of one.
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