Get back together with ex?

Get back together with ex?


We broke up about 10 months ago after being together 1 and a half years. There was a lot of confusion in our break up, and when we talked about it later, we realized we made a mistake. She didn't want to get back together immediately.





So I made the stupid mistake of going out with someone else two weeks later. I broke up with her a month ago, because I couldn't stop thinking about my ex, even after 9 months.





I called my ex after I broke up with the other girl, apologized for everything I did, as well as telling her how I felt. She wasn't that angry, just surprised about the suddenness, and randomness (it was the summer, I hadn't seen her for a while) of my call. She didn't say that she felt the same way, but she said she was going to think and 'digest' everything.





We haven't talked about 'it' since then, even though we talk everyday, and have been repairing our friendly-relationship, (from an awkward, hostile relationship).





Should I bring it up? Should I just straight out ask her out? Or should I wait till our relationship just builds up or she brings it up?Get back together with ex?
I say wait, friendship should be the basis of all relationships if you were hostile and are just moving back to solid good ground then let it work its self out and build stronger ties so maybe it will be longer then a year this time Get back together with ex?
ok i say that you wait until the friendship becomes stronger and a relationship topic comes and just maybe if it's the right time then ask her out and see how things are from there on.
ask her straight out. but give her time to answer. and dont pressure her. be prepared 4 any answer she'll give u. and dont ask her in front of her friends, or yours.
you have already got the ball rolling so you should def bring it up if you want to discuss it and it's playing on your mind. Obviously it depends on when you told her and how long she has had to ';digest'; this information. ...but honestly, if it's taking her so long to decide then maybe you know the answer yourself?





The ball is in her court - she knows how you feel but you need to know where you stand, so go ahead and gently ask her what she thinks...it maybe she just wants to be friends and is worried if she says no then the friendship will go too...






You definitely need to talk about it and open up the lines of communication if your relationship is going to move forward and get better.





My best friend recently went through a breakup and found a website that she claims was the sole reason she was able to get back with her ex and you might want to check it out because it goes into great length about communication and how important it is.





I was a bit skeptical at first, but it was pretty remarkable witnessing how she was able to get her ex back after she followed the advice from the website. The tactics are a bit unconventional, but they absolutely work - my friend is proof.





Here is the website if you are interested - hope it can do for you what it did for my friend:





http://winbackyourextoday.blogspot.com/