Ok so a couple weeks ago i broke up w/ my ex bc i caught her talk to her ex boyfriend multiple time and not just ';hey how are you' but things like i love you, i miss you, one time she even told him that she was single. and she talk to other guys just bc she likes the attention, she admitted that. i just grew so tired of it, it was so wrong and unfair. she says its all bc her first bf messed her head up so bad so now she craves attention from guys bc he never gave her any. But after a couple of time of pouring my heart out and tellin her how much that she hurt me by sayin those things to her ex bf, she continued to do it so i had to break it off.
when i first broke it off i knew that would be only way for her to realize things and that i hoped she would change and we could work it out. of course i was down and missed her like crazy. but after a little while i felt better and like i was ready to just move on. So about a week ago she started callin again alot saying how much see missed me and is sorry. so we started hangin out some again, she says she will change and that she knows she needs to fix things.
I just dont know what to do she seems so sincere but still. im really stuck. sometimes i think just go and move on she wont change. then i think maybe she will change and im pushing away something good. Its just tough bc now when we hang out all i can think about is oh great who is she talking to now.
She has started seeing a pyschiatrist since she knows she has some issues and she ';says'; that one of the main things she talks about with them is how she likes attention and how she keeps talkin to her ex even though she has no true feelings for him. I dunno what to do, it seems like she really wants to fix things but who knows if she will and if so how long will i have to wait around for it.
I thought about just givin it a rest w/ her for a while so she can get herself straight. i just feel like its now or never though. like we will be too far down are own paths later on to work anything out
Ok so very recently she still beggin for me back. she even went as far to show me a conversation she had with her ex where she told him that they needed to stop talkin to one another bc it ruined my relationship. she told him she loves me and im the one she wants. That really did help me feel like she is serious about a change.
It just still so tough, bc i was actually startin to kind of enjoy being single but i do still love her and im afraid when i get tired again a little down the road of runnin around enjoying the single life im gonna want her back so bad. Im also kind of scared she may go back to her old ways im seriously sooooooo confused!!!EX wants me back, REALLY dont know what to do?
I'm sorry you're going through this, ,but this is the ';marriage and divorce'; section. Your question really belongs to ';singles and dating.';EX wants me back, REALLY dont know what to do?
you sound like a great guy so i would leave her and find someone who doesn't play games like that. she had her chance and she screwed up. if you do give her another chance dont trust her completely and pay attention to her actions rather that her words, then again that she seems like to much work. i would move on
If she is seeing a doctor and getting help...she is serious about reconciling wiht you...if you have it in your heart...give it a chance.
why do people constantly post these questions under marriage and divorce? you're not married and not dealing with issues on the same level!!
so freakin' annoying to read about your 'single and dating' problems when some of us are having our lives ripped apart with children involved.
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