That's a classic case right there.....
You haven't had anything solid with anybody else because you have your ex wife as the standard. If you still love her there must have been some good qualities about her that you liked.
You guys have children together so when you see them you remember the fact that they are two halves of each of you. It hurts terribly because I am in a similar situation. Love is endless and you may never completely get over her, but if you love her just respect her life now. I know its easier said than done though because I still love my ex but he is married now also.
Just keep looking until you find someone of that same caliber. If you got her, you will find another. A good catch just isn't that easy to come by.Why do I still feel this way about my ex?
Your welcome sweetie. Some of these Yahoo people can be really rude and uncaring because it isnt their life or feelings involved.
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It's not about being rude. It's about not pandering to his self-pitty. You aren't doing him any favors. I hope to God he finds somebody much better than the woman who left him, and I hope to God he learns not to pine for somebody who doesn't care about him.
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Its natural tat you feel tat way cos no matter wat she's still the mother of your kids. Since you know clearly tat she had moved on, y don't you. Let it go and move on. Open up yourself and don't stay put in the past. Good luck and all the best.
Just move on.There's another special person out there for you.
There's plenty of women out there. She has a new husband so let her be happy. I have realized that if you do not look for it, love will find you. Stop concentrating so much on your ex and put it in your mind that she is just a good friend now. Be happy that you have that friendship with her, as many of us divorcees do not. Put yourself in situations that will allow you to be seen by single women and eventually you will run into Ms. Right. Stay away from bars and internet match sites and chatrooms. They are the worst way to find someone. Good luck!
Do NOT tell her how you feel. She has remarried and moved on and you too as well.
keep you mouth shut,
its ok to still want her or dream about her and im sure you will love her till the day you die
but she has another, dont wreck her life , do not tell her how you feel
, Wow.. Ive been here before. So far eveyone who answered is right... You do need to move on. You guys had a special relationship, but for what ever reason it over. Accept that. and move on. You soul mate is out there, hang in there.
If she has moved on that means she doesnt feel the same way you do so you have to let go....sometimes people dont realize what they had until they loose it and that seems to be the case for you....there's always someone better for you but stop being so picky because you are not perfect either so give someone else a chance and work with their faults
I think it's normal. You did not say who initiated the divorce,
and since it seems pretty amicable now, whatever caused the
divorce is not an issue any more. You need to accept that your time otgether is over, and move on. Just do it.
let her go and do not show how stupid and insecure this makes you look
This is a hard situation, most of the time i tell people to let the other person know how they are feeling but with this situation, i say just leave it and move on because she is married now and is moving on with her life so it's best for you to try and do the same. I know it's easier said than done but this could open up so many emotions and problems.
If you don't want to ruin everything i just say keep your mouth shut and try and move on.
Best of wishes
i think you must still love her. i would not tell her how you feel because it will just change thinks in her relationship, and it looks like she is happy now. if ther was a chance you could have got together mybe it is long passed. i think it is just because you see your ex has moved on and you havent met that special someone yet, you are just hanging on to the passed. once you find that lady you will be happy again. just let your ex wife be happy also.
She is the mother of your kids and before that ur life and soul mate ,willingly or unwillingly life has given you a piece of her with you and you will tend to miss that when she is not replaceable by others whom you date!Just keep on being a good dad and a nice soul mate to your wife.You cannot be disturbing her marriage as her partner is the one who is going to be affected.Go on and make some new friends and cultivate a happy lifestyle. You will never be sure when cupid hits you!All the best!
Low self-esteem and brain washing. Man, she is married to another man. Is that how a woman who loves you acts? Is it how she shows respect?
So... what would you tell somebody who was interested in a woman who did not love a guy, screws another guy, and doesn't really respect the guy who is asking you a question about some silly crush he has? I'd tell him to grow up and be a real man.
.If you really want her back before you say a word to her you need to sabotage her marriage make it look to her husband like she is cheating not with you but maybe you could have a good friend start calling her house from a pay phone and hanging up when he answers or reverse it and have some woman to make her think he is cheating and when the dust settles you will be waiting in the wings to pick up the pieces.
It's the hardest thing to do but you need to move on ... i guess she was the one who asked for the divorce huh?
who ended the marriage? If it ended amicably then of course there is going to be some feelings there for her. But i would let it go. She has moved on and is in another marriage. What you two had is something in the past, and it is good that you can remain friends all this time. There was a reason you two divorced and may be instead of trying to concentrate on your future because of fear of commitment, you are still hanging onto the past so you won't have to deal with it.
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