HELP. Broke up Now my EX wants me back, don't know if i should?

Ok so a couple weeks ago i broke up w/ my ex bc i caught her talk to her ex boyfriend multiple time and not just ';hey how are you' but things like i love you, i miss you, one time she even told him that she was single. and she talk to other guys just bc she likes the attention, she admitted that. i just grew so tired of it, it was so wrong and unfair. she says its all bc her first bf messed her head up so bad so now she craves attention from guys bc he never gave her any. But after a couple of time of pouring my heart out and tellin her how much that she hurt me by sayin those things to her ex bf, she continued to do it so i had to break it off.





when i first broke it off i knew that would be only way for her to realize things and that i hoped she would change and we could work it out. of course i was down and missed her like crazy. but after a little while i felt better and like i was ready to just move on. So about a week ago she started callin again alot saying how much see missed me and is sorry. so we started hangin out some again, she says she will change and that she knows she needs to fix things.





I just dont know what to do she seems so sincere but still. im really stuck. sometimes i think just go and move on she wont change. then i think maybe she will change and im pushing away something good. Its just tough bc now when we hang out all i can think about is oh great who is she talking to now.





She has started seeing a pyschiatrist since she knows she has some issues and she ';says'; that one of the main things she talks about with them is how she likes attention and how she keeps talkin to her ex even though she has no true feelings for him. I dunno what to do, it seems like she really wants to fix things but who knows if she will and if so how long will i have to wait around for it.


I thought about just givin it a rest w/ her for a while so she can get herself straight. i just feel like its now or never though. like we will be too far down are own paths later on to work anything outHELP. Broke up Now my EX wants me back, don't know if i should?
seems as if u really want to take her back, no matter what. but if u do and it turns out badly, u have to be emotionally strong enough to end it right away. just make sure she keeps getting her therapy, and it is true if u wait too long u both might find someone new. but cheating is a bad thing, breaks hearts, only u can really decide what to do. but sometimes they keep cheating on u, and if they do its not someone u want in your life.HELP. Broke up Now my EX wants me back, don't know if i should?
I just want to ask one question. How many times do you want to go through this heartache?
your nuts if u go back to sweet thing
She may be telling the truth about her having issues with needing constant attention, but this doesn't make the situation any better. Her actions have clearly been what I would call ';emotional'; cheating which isn't fair to you whether she is ';sick'; or not. Her telling you that she has a problem should be a red flag telling you that she isn't in any state to be in a committed relationship. Also, she may be trying to get you back because she wants...surprise..more attention! You don't have to be mean to her, but I would seriously consider telling her that you want her to continue to go to her psychiatrist and get things worked out with herself, and when the time comes and she is more stable then you guys can try to work things out. Until then you should try to let her get herself together on her own because if she really does have a clinical problem, you will probably just get in the way of her recovery and cause yourself a lot of heartache. If she really does care about you the way she says she does then she will understand and work hard to get back on the right track. If she doesn't understand, then you will have dodged a bullet.
You have to take the risk of not getting back together. She needs to get her head together otherwise you are sending her the message that you will be there no matter what she does.