I want to get back with my ex.. even though it may not be the best thing for me?

okay. so i use to talk to (not date, its like we were dating but no actual title) to this guy stephen. we had a summer thing that lasted from may to august .. i liked him very much.. he stopped talking to me and started to date a girl named kandice. my heart was crushed.. i slowly got over him after a few weeks and moved on with my life...just a few days ago they just broke up for a day and started going back out.. even it being after they were back together he wrote me a message on myspace because i had a quote on my profile that was the same as his senior quote (i didn't know this).. so we had small talk about that and the conversation eventually ended. they are now broken up again and it looks like its for good. me knowing that he took notice to me and that they are broken up makes me want him again, i want to try to talk to him to see if something may spark.. i know im foolish to want this again after what he did to me.. and i want him to try to talk to ME.. but God only knows if thatll ever happen! so, someones gotta do it! i really want to see if theres any positive outcome to this should i text him or message him and ask how he's been? should i post a status that i know will get his attention while hes online? i want him back.. and even if i fail i still want to try.. i need some advice..


I want to get back with my ex.. even though it may not be the best thing for me?
he cheated on you....it doesnt change anything...hes just sticking to you cuz he needs a gf...look for a guy hu likes YOU.I want to get back with my ex.. even though it may not be the best thing for me?
talk to him, the more time you spend on here the more chance he has of moving on, he probably feels the same way and maybe he's scared too, take a risk.
You might get him back, but only until he finds someone better. Just like the first time.





Your gonna end up getting hurt again... Stay away from him is my best advice, he will do nothing for you and only for himself.
if you get good responses, replies and call backs and he arranges, plans dates with you, i say go for it. if he doesnt communicate or answer you then move on cuz otherwise you'll just get hurt again.


good luck
He told you because he wants a little. Probably no a lot, just a rebound thing, and your handy.


You need to figure yourself out so read the book.


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If you feel that he won't be good for you you're going to just have to let this one go. Exes are exes for a reason.
you can't have him back, because he was never yours;


you guys were just friends with benefit; if he liked you;


he would've ask you out a long time ago;






maybe he just talked to u bc he wanted a rebound but then he didnt need it ? dont be a rebound ... give it a month or so %26amp; if hes still single %26amp; interested then go for the goal
Ok, listen very closely.....never ever go backwards always go foward.
Don't knowingly go for something you know is not the best. You will end up regretting later.
find someone new
he didn't do anything that bad, so i think if it is what you want then go for it
ok try to talk to him but i don't think it will go anywhere. honestly.
ok listen jennie, this guy is NOT worth your time or effort. he reminds me of those hairy gorillas that walk around in my school who just want to rape freshman girls.





seriously speaking though, it is his loss, not yours. Go out, have some fun, and meet some new guys. It seems like you want some attention and love from a really sweet guy -- this guy aint cuttin it.





i don't mean to be presumptuous but i think this guy is only looking for random play and i can tell you deserve better than that.
its going to be much easier to just start fresh than to try this. i know you probably like him a lot but you have to realize that he probably doesnt like you back and in the end you will be more hurt than you were before. it will be much easier to find someone different and say something like i %26lt;3 another guy and see if he notices you from that.
just move on. this is kind of hurtful to say but if he didnt like you then, then he wont like you now. and if he did want to be with you or try something, you would only be a rebound. give him some space. if its meant to be its meant to be.
hehehe first and foremost, he didnt do anything to you. He didnt know he was hurting you cause he didnt know that you felt this way about him. Guys are duds, we dont know what goes through a girls mind unless you tell us. He likes you too, dont worry just give him a few signs!! that staus idea is a good idea!! post something that will hint at him!! make him realize you have feelings for him!!
Reality check - He is not your 'ex' if you only talked and never dated, unless you consider him an 'ex chat buddy.' Truthfully, he didn't really do anything wrong by hooking up with this other girl in real life, because you were not in a real relationship with him. You were just chat buddies. So I would say, if you really want to make something happen here, you are going to have to get off-line and get on him! Follow my drift? Do something with him that does not involve text or phone. Do something with him IN PERSON!! He is not treating you bad. Your only relationship with him is in cyber space. And you can't kiss, cuddle, or hold hands in cyberspace. So if you want this guy, you will have to make yourself available to him, face to face.