Tuesday, August 10, 2010

How do you really move on from an ex?

i am still in love with my ex, even though there was another girl involved. When my ex broke up with me, i met a new guy and we started dating and this is when my ex wanted me back. I told him no because i felt like i should give the new guy a chance, so while this was going on he got to know another girl as well. So now i'm broken up with the new guy since last july and i started realizing that my feelings for my ex never went away and we started talking again till now recently. But now he just told me him and the new girl are together now. What should i do? it hurt a lot because i still love him. Help! Thank you!How do you really move on from an ex?
was the other girl involved with him while you were also with him? because in that case, i would just forget about him. there are plenty of other guys out there. maybe talk to him as a friend for now and see where things go while also seeing what else is out thereHow do you really move on from an ex?
sweetheart, you should prolly break all ties with him. its a hard thing to do but the best things to do are usually the hardest
You can't move on until you really want to move on.





Clinging to your emotions like a teddy bear is what's keeping you from letting go. Once you are ready to take the first step then you must cut all contact. No more facebook friends, no more texting, no more hanging out, no more IM buddies. All forms of contact cut. Make a list of all the bad things about that person and keep reading it to yourself





Then you keep yourself occupied with friends and family. Join a gym and get in shape. Focus on your job or studies. Stop listening to sad love songs. Keep your playlists upbeat and empowering. If you spent time with him in your room then re-arrange furniture so you are not reminded of it. Don't go to places where you and him did something that feels special to you.





It's always harder to move on when you are the one being dumped. The one that does the dumping is always the one emotionally on top. If you do what I say above particularly the no contact part, then eventually you will move past him.

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